The Law of Attraction is nothing but discovering your real self. It changed my life and it can change yours too.
– Fahim Lashkaria –
The law of attraction has changed my life and many others around the world. It revolves around the statement “what you mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” It is not that you start thinking about achieving something and you get it.
Many believers of LOA get this wrong perception. LOA is the process of discovering your hidden potentials. It diverts your focus from unwanted things to your desires. When things are in your focus, you see the opportunities that were overlooked.
When you act upon those opportunities you will manifest them. This is what it means when it is said what a mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.
Even those people who don’t believe in LOA also apply it unknowingly. Either they already have discovered their inner self or are nurtured by parents/life instances to be focused on their desires. They see opportunities and act upon them to achieve it.
When you closely see, both believers and non-believers of LOA are going through the same process. Some reach the road directly and some through LOA. I hope that this explanation will suffice about LOA and its working.
Previously, I have written an article “Is LOA Real? A Logical Understanding” explaining the scientific working of LOA. Check it out for more information.
Having said that, let me share with you my story of how the Law of Attraction changed my life. My intention to write this article is that it might be helpful to others out there waiting to discover themselves.
How LOA Changed My Life?
Before getting to know LOA, I was an ocean of negativity. I was brought up pampered by my parents and grandparents. Whenever tried to do something they would support me and never let me do it myself.
Gradually, I became dependent on them and when life threw problems, I wasn’t able to face them. It demoralized me. I didn’t believe in myself. Always blaming circumstances and people around me for my failures.
I am a Muslim and had studied my religious book in 1999 with its meanings. But it was just knowledge without implementation. All these years, I kept on re-reading the Quran just to find answers to my questions.
In 2006, one of my friends shared with me the movie “The Secret”. During that time I was living in Dubai. He sent me a recorded CD of the movie. I saw the movie and was amazed.
Everything the movie depicted was in my scriptures. As it was not said in layman terms, I couldn’t understand it.
My journey had already started when God inspired me to read my religious scriptures. But the actual transformation journey started in 2006.
Here is how in 6 phases LOA changed my life. Slowly and gradually I started manifesting my dream life. I manifested relationships, jobs, money, and health as I desired.
Everything starts with hope. You don’t act, see or hear anything when you are hopeless. The moment hope builds, your start hearing, looking deep into circumstances and act in hope that it might get better.
Hope builds faith and it did in me. Faith was in my abilities and the universe/god whatever you call it.
In “Success Through Positive Mental Attitude” book I read a statement. God is always a good God. We are not poor or unhappy because of God, we are because we never thought we can be.
This led me to rethink my attitude towards the world and I took the responsibility of my life. I stopped blaming people and started taking the onus of my mistakes. Further, it led me to decide to amend my mistakes and do whatever is required to get things right.
This hope built a positive mental attitude in me. The first and foremost benefit of LOA that it gave hope and turned me from being a pessimist to an optimist.
In those days, I was suffering from depression and it was then where I could see the ray of hope in my life with “The Secret”. I have described it in my article “How Positivity Helped Me Beat Depression and Anxiety“.
I challenge you to go and see every successful man in the world and you will find a positive mental attitude in them. Because it is one of the basic principles of success.
This positivity further helped me to remain calm in difficult situations and hence I was able to develop a solution-focused approach.
Inspired To Define My Life
Hope and positivity inspired me to define my dreams. According to human nature, I started with small things. I started achieving my desired job, then my financial freedom.
After this, I defined my story. I wrote everything I wanted in every aspect of my life. Defined goals, made plans. I wrote everything in my diary.
Initially, I wasn’t successful in manifesting everything. But as time passed, I kept on researching in deep. But as now I was hopeful and positive, I clung on to the concept and kept on doing it.
Soon I came to know that things that I didn’t manifest were those where I lacked determination. Now, I redefined my dreams with more determination, clarity, and faith.
Earlier the failures use to create some doubts. But after studying the stories of many successful people in history I found that determination was the only power that kept them inspired all the time.
Determination is like fuel. The more your tank is filled with it the more enthusiasm it gives you. Thus, I had now cultivated a mindset to never give up. The harder the things got, I harder my efforts became.
Helped Fight My Fears
Fear of failure and doubt started vanishing. Let’s do it one more time was my attitude now. I took every setback as an opportunity.
The words from the book “Success Through Positive Mental Attitude” by Napolean Hill were imprinted in my mind.
” Every adversity, every failure, carries with it a seed of equal opportunity.”
When this thing came in me, my life just turned around. I started looking for that opportunity and took every adversity as experience. Look for the missing things and try again no matter what happens.
All things that were cultivated in me during that initial period were making me ready for what I wanted to be. It was the learning process in which I learned the qualities necessary to successfully manifest.
The more I looked for the opportunities the more I grabbed them. Now, I was growing every day. When we know that an opportunity exists and we are determined to achieve it, we will surely act on it. And so I also took those required actions leading me to my desired goals.
In the past 15 years, each year I have made new resolutions and achieved them. I was successful in setting up my business, buy a home, visit the desired places, turning my relationships, and whatnot.
Not only that, but my journey also inspired me to give all these manifestation tips, rules, and attitudes to others who are stuck in achieving their dream life. This website is my payback to the universe.
Did you see, how the Law of Attraction changed my life? From giving hope, building a positive mental attitude, cultivating determination to taking inspired actions. If I can do it, you can too.
Don’t wait and start defining your dreams. All that you want is inside of you.
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